Reason why the breakup is a blessing

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxSJm9lLFSc

#1: It wasn't love, it was an unhealthy attachment. Without them breaking up with you, you weren't going to pull that trigger.

It was God saving you. That breakup was needed so that you can finally break free. 

#2: They were never the right person for you. I knew that before I got with Angel. 

Lack of healing, a flawed approach to selection a partner. who we will try to allow into our lives and when you have not healed you are 99% going to chose the wrong person.

That breakup is necessary to break you from an individual that you don't belong with. embrace that opportunity.

#3: That person was hindering your purpose.

It's a huge distraction. Everyone is not in alignment to where God wants us to be in life. It hinders you. Even if you believe that you are moving towards your purpose, you are severely hindered. Your progress is not where you should be at. 

That loss is your gain. It is something to be celebrated. Move forward with a positive mindset.

#4: If you had stayed longer, you would have been more damaged. WHOA!

I'm thinking about Angel. Andre ah. it ended when I was done. Ryan, he didn't treat me bad. it wasn't a bad year. but he did miss my birthday party thing. He just didn't show up when he was supposed to, when we said we would. I did it again the next day. I got dressed, I had the shoes and the dress and I looked so nice. He came up with some BS about his phone but we had agreed. He always said it was his phone when he wouldn't show up. 

#5: You were putting that person above God. We don't realize we have put them before God. We put more into the relationship with them than we do with God. God will always be first, and they will come second to that. Put the right foundation in place. Take self assessment. It happens to the best of us. 

Some people don't learn anything from the breakup. It just bring walls up in your life and block you from your blessing.