Walks in the Park

  Expressive Personality An expressive person is someone who naturally shares their thoughts, feelings, and energy outwardly. Key traits: Verbal and animated: You speak your mind, tell stories, ask questions, laugh, and gesture naturally. Energetic presence: You show excitement and emotion openly. People can “feel” you in the room. Process externally: You often figure things out by talking them through. Conversations help you think, understand, and connect. Social attunement: You notice responses, energy, and moods — you may adjust your tone, pace, or enthusiasm based on how others react. For an expressive person, interaction itself is fuel. Sharing is a way of connecting, exploring ideas, and bonding. Quiet/Internal Personality A quiet or internal style doesn’t mean “shy” or “disengaged.” It’s a different way of processing and interacting: Reserved verbal output: They speak less, often more thoughtfully or selectively. Internal processing: They think thr...

 Tim Ross and Preston Morrison. 1) P: God is found in the hardest of things.. then why do people run from the hard things.  me: question, where is that in the scripture? P: in this life, you will have persecution. T: the joy of the Lord is my strength. whose joy is it?  ::Preston laughs:  T: its not mine, it is His joy its not my joy nor my happiness. whose joy? His joy is my strenght. If people get over being afraid of bad days, inconveniences, prolonged seasons, its arbritary... I love my relationship with God because I can do hard things (I like that!) 2) P: This doctrine of convenience is in us when something happens and we off the rails. (to me it sounds like a American conversation). part of being a pastor is dealing with a sleepy bride. COVID just revealed a little bit of this doctrine of convenience. God can reveal any thing and use it for His glory and His.  P: I have seen the grace of God the most in seasons where I did not think I was going to survive...

 I’m really glad you asked that, because when I wrote “a woman,” I didn’t mean it in a cliché or shallow way at all. I meant it in a deep, human, embodied way — especially in contrast to the roles you’ve been stuck in. For a long time, it sounds like you weren’t really getting to be a woman . You were being: a caretaker a helper a buffer a mediator a second parent the “responsible one” the one who shows up for everyone else Those are roles . Heavy ones. Survival ones. Being a woman is something very different. Here are a few things I mean by that, and you can tell me what resonates and what doesn’t: Being a woman means you get to be… 1. In your body, not just in your usefulness You get to notice: What feels good What feels uncomfortable What you enjoy What you don’t Your pace Your energy Your yes and your no Instead of: “What does everyone need from me?” It becomes: “What do I need? What do I feel?” That is a very feminine,...

 You weren’t just “helping.” You were over-functioning in the relationship while she under-functioned. You carried: Her responsibility for her kids’ schedules Her stress Her lack of planning Her comfort But when the roles reversed and you asked her twice to help you… she gave you attitude . That’s such an important signal. It shows you something very painful and very real: She was comfortable receiving , but not comfortable giving back . And when you stopped doing so much, your life got quieter, calmer, clearer. That peace you’re feeling right now? That’s not loneliness. That’s not emptiness. That’s a nervous system that is no longer in constant service mode . For the first time in a long time, your energy is mostly on: You Your son Your home Your peace And look how different it feels. That’s what boundaries actually give you: Time. Space. Clarity. Calm. Self-connection. “I thought she should be happy to finally do something for me.” Th...

 "We just purchased a hotel on the beach" wealth transfer. God is going to tip the scales and power is going have power go to his anointed. God is tired of the power (financial, money) being in hands of people that do not follow Him and do not do good. The beginning of the dream is talking about God serving justice. (taking from the wealthy and giving it to his anointed on earth that will obey the Lord) You and your husband just bought a hotel. It is simple, it was in your power to do so. No one to ask, no one to ask wisdom for. From God straight to you both and you guys had power to do what God had asked to do. No intercessors here. No humans in the way.  "We were the first hotel out of all the hotels on the beach. I heard two people talking and as they were talking, they said, I know where the hills are on the beach and I know where they are flat." Lee- as she was talking to the beach, she pointed, this is where its' flat, and this is where it is hilly" T...

 Jose-:  I heard all my life, stupid, why did you do that ? I know that to be a fact now, I don't think i'm smart or think I can write a paper. my wife tells me i'm smart but I don't feel it. the words we would speak do have consequences. when was the last time you told your daughter/son/yourself that you are beautiful? when I brush my teeth, I say to myself. you are beautiful, you are the apple of God's eyes.  might not feel pretty. doesn't matter, its what God says.  Matthew 12:33-37 death and life are in the power of our tongue.  a tree is recognized by its fruit. how can you speak good things when you are evil? for the mouth speaks out of the heart.if your cursing, yelling, your heart is not right with your heart.  we have to align our heart with God. "God change my heart. help me see people how you see people. help me not have anger and frustration." James 3: 1 Peter 2:24 by his stripes we are healed. I received my healing in Jesus name. we are lo...