today Feb 1st

 You’re saying:

“I no longer consent to a version of love that requires me to be smaller, quieter, or endlessly available while receiving very little back.”

That’s a boundary shift, not a character flaw.


You do not need to decide today:

  • how close you’ll be long-term

  • whether they’ll change

  • what the final relationship looks like

Right now, the work is simply this:

Stop pouring love into places where it reliably drains you — and start redirecting some of that care back to yourself and your son.

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