Jane- Dream

 Lady: Dream- Amaka, Ike 

We were all the room.

1. Me, my husband, and my son. The door was wide open. ( Lack of boundaries, you were open. Husband opened the door. Under his leadership and Jane wanting a be good wife, she allowed the door  to be open). 

It will come a season where Jane will rise up and not be afraid to take more of a leadership position in the marriage. 

Husband, Nonso, grew up more in community settings. For Jane and her well being you need more silent spaces and time to decompress.  Your image of the home is different.)

Auris- in African home the woman has her own space. right now, Jane does not feel like that in her home. that's why it takes so much for her to go back home. Sometimes the times in the car, and the waiting area in the job Jane looks for spaces like that so that she can be alone, so that she can decompress.

2. Jane and her husband is in the bedroom and the door is open. Son is there. 

There is a lack of privacy. In the bedroom, son should not be there. door should not be open. that means too much is known about your relationship. IDK where the leak is but I kind of hint of Husband's family. 

JANE- needs privacy, needs silence. Needs time to decompress. It's like people coming into your garden and stepping on your flowers. 

Part of the marriage has to change over time where Jane has to have her needs met. GOD IS SAYING YOU DON'T HAVE TO SHRINK TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE WORK,JANE.

3. Son is there, playing on the floor, making noise, being himself. 

Bathroom that is in the living area but right next to us. its outside of our bedroom but right next to our room. 

Bathroom- represents cleaning, decompressing, removing the worries the struggles of the day. It is outside of the bedroom meaning that is not happening right now in the marriage. 

It is supposed to be in the room. So the son is not supposed to be in the room, and he is. and the bathroom is supposed to be in the room and is not. 

THINGS ARE  NOT RIGHT. Not much time to go over the day with each other. The responsibilities of caretaking are taking over the marriage and the time alone that Jane and Nonso are supposed to be having together.  I wanted to add, remember the door is open as well,  so too many people know intimate things about the marriage. When a door is open it means that when people walk by they can see inside. 

4. Lady comes out of the bathroom, and she has a white towel on. 

White represents purity, God is saying this is how your husband sees her. Nonso is not seeing her flaws. She sees her as pure, white.   (the nuance of this is kind of like how Jane sees the lady is not how Nonso sees the lady). 

It also means when she messes up, Jane sees it and Nonso does not see it. 

Anything else? IT IS NOT THE LADY''S FAULT. Under Nonso's leadership, she was allowed this access. THIS IS A BIG POINT FOR JANE TO KNOW. to not be so mad at the lady, the lady was simply put in a position that she shouldn't have had and she was given an access that she was not supposed to have. 

MISDIRECTED ANGER. 

5. She comes out with her towel. She comes out, the door is wide open. She has to walk by to get to the other side of the apartment. When she passes, she sees her son, inside playing and making noise and she sees her husband. Jane doesn't think she saw her. Jane is by the closet. 

She starts with your son. she is talking to him. All of a sudden, the towel goes from covering herself and then her towel is, almost 95% naked.  only her privates are covered. 

(not happening in real life, Jane;s mind).  

Jane- she allowed her towel to fall in that manner. She's still talking with her son. in her mind, Jane is like this lady is trying to seduce my husband. hes' processing what's going on. then Jane comes out and goes off on her. how dare you? you are doing all this, you are trying to get my husband to do all this. 

In the dream, I knew she could do something like this. I was always very careful with her. it happened. i'm going off on her. her face is she is not shocked or embarrassed. her face was like 'yeah and?'

you did this, you are trying to seduce. 

DELUSION.

something in me told me to lift her towel up, her breast are still covered I list her private area. I see a baby penis. (MASCULINE). 

Jane: wait, so you have a penis? she's looking at me like she's thrown off. you are trying to get to my husband with that? Jane  exposes her and tells her husband. 

After all this happens, Jane goes back to her husband and unfortunaly he said he's not surprised this happens. I know things like this may happen because of the way I look  (this is all in Jane's head). 

It's all her perception .

PENIS- shows that the lady had no interest in the husband. the towel falling was an accident. 

GOD IS SAYING, the mistake was having an open door, the mistake was not the lady being there. the lady should have never been there. 

This gets to the bottom of why Jane was so unsettled.